The True Meaning (and Hard Work) of Love

LOVE seems such a confused concept in this ‘love is love’ age. Love is only love when we understand that love joins emotion with action. Love that is emotion without action is merely infatuation. This is not to cast aspersions on the love enjoyed by two consensual adults, where there is the assumption of love…

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Loving With the Truth

CARING compassion would found all our affairs in the ministry of the Word with people, but for the case of truth. But isn’t caring compassion founded most in the speaking of truth… gently? Yet, it’s much easier pondered than achieved. Loving with the truth is a delicate balance that errs toward grace without compromising truth;…

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What Are Your Relationships Like?

What Are Your Relationships Like?? Since this is the month of love and celebrating love, I thought I would put a different spin on the whole relationship thing. We tend to think of relationships in the sense of life partners, family and friends, and while they are all very important, we need to start expanding…

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Improving Relationships the Nature of Love

Romance is a great thing, but it quickly becomes something a bit different. Usually, it becomes partnership. We are not talking about the teammate sort of partnership or the standard business arrangement… we mean the kind of partnership that enables us to enjoy balance, peace, and security within our minds. There are a few stages…

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Do You Want to Make Your Interracial Relationship Work?

As many more people migrate from one place to another, the new generation of children are now more open to dating expats. Many are accustomed to multicultural ways and traditions making them more accepting of other people’s religions and cultures. Yet, even if this is the case, the older generation (mostly the patriarchs and matriarchs…

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What Is The Other Woman’s Perception Of The Wife?

It’s completely normal to wonder about the woman with whom your husband had an affair. You wonder what type of person she is. You wonder what thoughts she had about your husband. You wonder what she thought about you. Often, people just do not understand this curiosity. They wonder why it matters to you. Admittedly,…

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Relationships Work For As Long As They Work

So often I hear scenarios like I keep picking the wrong person over and over again to be in a relationship with. I’m a failure when it comes to relationships. Or, I’ve had four failed marriages and I’m not going for a fifth. Or, I’m a loser when it comes to relationships. So why bother…

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Going Deeper – The Glue That Helps Relationships Stick

How to Experience Depth in Relationships? The glue of relationships is getting to depth with your man or with anyone else. Relationships can be chit chat or deep, and they can also be chit chat and deep. I used to not think so… I was under the impression they needed to be esoteric, deep thought…

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