The True Meaning (and Hard Work) of Love

LOVE seems such a confused concept in this ‘love is love’ age. Love is only love when we understand that love joins emotion with action. Love that is emotion without action is merely infatuation. This is not to cast aspersions on the love enjoyed by two consensual adults, where there is the assumption of love…

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Loving With the Truth

CARING compassion would found all our affairs in the ministry of the Word with people, but for the case of truth. But isn’t caring compassion founded most in the speaking of truth… gently? Yet, it’s much easier pondered than achieved. Loving with the truth is a delicate balance that errs toward grace without compromising truth;…

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Relationships Work For As Long As They Work

So often I hear scenarios like I keep picking the wrong person over and over again to be in a relationship with. I’m a failure when it comes to relationships. Or, I’ve had four failed marriages and I’m not going for a fifth. Or, I’m a loser when it comes to relationships. So why bother…

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Going Deeper – The Glue That Helps Relationships Stick

How to Experience Depth in Relationships? The glue of relationships is getting to depth with your man or with anyone else. Relationships can be chit chat or deep, and they can also be chit chat and deep. I used to not think so… I was under the impression they needed to be esoteric, deep thought…

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Love Is This Strange Feeling You Get Inside

Love is this strange feeling you get inside. The love that you feel for someone can’t be explained even if you try. Putting love into words may seem easy, but it can be complicated. Thinking of ways to express this feeling can take time, but it doesn’t matter because this feeling of love feels real….

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How To Choose a Hobby You Will Both Love

Finding hobbies both you and your partner love can be somewhat difficult, especially if you two consider yourselves to be very different people. But with some perspective and analyze you will soon realize you are not so different after all. If you were, you would not have been attracted to each other. Here is how…

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Was It My First Love or What?

Life is something very complicated and imperceptible. It is full of certain and un-certain events; pleasant and un-pleasant, credible and incredible, sweet and bitter, wanted and mostly un-wanted. Many philosophers have been trying their best to find out the true meaning of life; but I won’t say even one of them succeeded. Maybe I am…

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God, You and How Loneliness Makes Love True

“Until you have been able to meet God in loneliness of soul, you and God, as if there is nobody else in the world, you will never know what it is to love other people in the world.” – A.W. Tozer (1897 – 1963) So you’re lonely. Life has come to be anything but. Loneliness’s…

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